Ten ANTI-Resolutions For The New Year
1. Last year is OVER – let it go. No good comes from dwelling on the past.
2. Don’t whine about the bad in your life. Whining prolongs the problem and irritates the rest of us.
3. Keep your problems to yourself. The tolerant are your enemy, not your friend.
4. Keep your dreams to yourself. Naysayers can destroy your dreams by shaking your confidence.
5. Never make resolutions- they don’t work. They are task focused, not end-result focused.
6. Start with the end in mind. Know EXACTLY what you want your life to look like and make a plan.
7. Write things down. Problems get smaller when written down, goals become more real.
8. Expect derailment. You will experience setbacks. Big deal. Get over it and move on.
9. Don’t stop – unless you need to stop. Sometimes you discover it was a bad goal, or you need to rest, or you need to start over completely – otherwise, stay focused and keep the momentum going.
10. Celebrate. Not just at the end, but all along the way.
Enjoy your day and your evening! I will be sharing my goals for 2012 tomorrow! Talk soon, friends!
xoxo,
Brandi Nell